Chad I’m not sure what answer you really want out of me lol maybe you should write a newsletter about it since you seem to have so many questions and insight about this particular topic. I’ll end with this because it’s at beyond my understanding. All relationships are customizable therefore there is no standardized framework for relationships which you seem to be alluding to in some way. Say I did want to control the home, who cares? You asked me what I provided and I answered. We can agree to disagree at that point. I don’t know what most men would want because 1. I’m not a man 2. All men are not a monolilth so how can say they are not that complex 3. If you know the five things all men want why didn’t you just say that in the first place. 4. Egalitarian relationships aren’t exactly thing for thing.

Either way great discussion.