That’s a shame! You’re missing out on some pretty great perspectives over an allegiance to a set of rules that, in the grand scheme of things, don’t fundamentally affect the efficacy of communication. There’s many reasons why people write in lower case. bell hooks chose to not capitalise her own name as a de-emphasis of self, saying “i’m not attached to it, and in that sense I think we have to choose, what are the issues that really matter?”