To preempt criticism I know is coming from the fairer sex. These disqualifications are relative.

For “Obesity” I obviously don’t just mean overweight. Most men like women with fat on them. What I am talking about is women who are so large you can practically expect infertility problems. This level of poor health has a very negative effect on male sexual attraction which is usually very forgiving otherwise.

For “Over X partners”. X is obviously relative. No man is likely going to care about one mistake, even if he is a virgin. But get above single digits and problems abound. Obviously you have to discount the males own sexual sins for how much is too much on the woman’s side. But I have never seen a relationship work where the woman has had far far far more partners than her husband. And usually it’s the woman who is introducing the problems.

For “outspoken feminist”, “outspoken” is doing a lot of work. If this girl is feminist because that’s “current thing” then you can just ignore it, not an issue. If feminism is her religion, then run. You aren’t going to kill a god as part of your courtship.

For “Old Age” this is again relative. The main problem with age is that the reproductive timeframes of young men are massively misaligned to older women, which is not good if you want families. Older men can marry older women.

And for “Only Fans”, yes as a Christian I believe in redemption. But young men often underestimate the amount of repentance needed to overcome a career in pron and get taken advantage of my more savvy women who just see him as the next thing to hop to after her OF career falls through.

How much repentance is needed for OF? Well just think of much is needed for a man in the throes intense pron addiction, then triple it. Being a pusher is worse than being an addict. It takes a very experienced and spiritual man to handle a woman coming back from a career in pron.