You never know the load someone else is carrying. Bless you Melissa Sullivan and your parents.
I arrived yesterday. Rang the doorbell at 11 am. Door is unlocked. As I open it, my mother with dementia appears.
“Your father doesn’t have any clothes on. We just got up. Why didn’t you tell us you were coming?!”
“Sorry. I did tell you. May I come in?”
“So inconsiderate!”