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I feel for all of the Christian men and non-Christian men struggling to find a wife. Here is my recommendation from a 70-year-old who has been happily married 44 years with three daughters - two of which are married with their own children and the last one in a serious relationship that will hopefully lead to marriage.

Go to a older married Christian couple whom you trust and respect (if your own parents don't fit the bill) and ask them to help you find a wife. This may sound very old-fashioned,…

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Your suggestion greatly assumes that older married people as a group genuinely care about helping single Christians find spouses and form families.

I would suggest that church communities take on the collective burden of starting a personal classifieds page where local Christian singles can identify themselves as looking for a spouse and/or also looking for marriage-related counsel from older married couples. Or communities can just have a old school bulletin board where men and women can post t…

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I'm not assuming anything. There are older, mature married Christian couples who don't care, but there are those - like my wife and I and others I know - that do care and have and would be willing to do assist in the future. Those men looking for a wife should seek them out - and vice a versa.

I have no objection to your suggestion, but what is needed is a more personal, human to human approach rather than another social media-driven approach.

How is a busy single man with many work obligations supposed to find these older married couples who want to help him find a wife?

A practical roadmap could be helpful to accompany your suggestion. Perhaps older married couples could advertise their matchmaking help and marriage counsel in the local church newsletter?

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