Gay people are not and should not be comparable to dangerous gangs, and that comparison is exactly where your argument breaks down. Being queer is not a destructive behavior someone is recruited into, it’s an identity people discover about themselves. There is no inherent harm in existing as being queer, unlike joining a gang, which involves violence and exploitation.
Your example only works if you quietly assume queerness is dangerous to begin with and that’s being bias, because more often than not, heterosexual people attack queer people for no other reason than “this person is queer”. You decided there must be something to “correct,” then worked backwards to justify confronting people about it.
And let’s be serious, not everyone believes in Jesus or accepts Christian doctrine as the authority over their life. So confronting someone with a belief system they don’t identify with isn’t love like you claim, it’s just you imposing your worldview and feigning it as concern.
Sometimes leaving people alone isn’t indifference, it’s basic respect. Love isn’t about constantly telling people they’re wrong, especially when the supposed wrongdoing only exists within your own belief framework. Real love leaves room for difference, respects autonomy, and doesn’t assume everyone needs to be guided into the same worldview.
Happy sunday.