Lyn Taylor Hale
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3d
The most wondrous thing I have come to learn, when I am hurting because of misunderstanding, miscommunication, or separateness, I have only come to learn in the last few years. How I wish I had known it a long, long time ago. That is, that I have the ability, in times of need, to hold myself. It looks like this. When the Lyn shows up who is wounded by misunderstanding or judgement or some such thing, or who is frightened by circumstances or by the uncertainty that is being alive, the Lyn who is competent and confident, and so loving and nurturing, can show up, too. She can hold the weakest part of me, and comfort her. Let her know I'm not going anywhere. I'll be right here. She can be certain of that. This amazing ability, to be both the holder and the held, is, indeed a thing of profound wonder to me.
Estelle Price
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3d
We have a house by the sea. For a long time the view was hidden by a hedge until one year we lowered the willow and, like a curtain going up, the ocean reappeared. For a few years we loved its distant promise - sometimes slate sometimes ice sometimes simply blue. We journeyed with each white-sailed yacht from left to right.
Then our neighbour got permission to build a barn. A big barn. We tried to stop it but failed. We suspected his motives. He was irritated with our protest.
The anticipation of the barn ate into the view like an infection. The day it was built, for a short time we could still see through the steel structure. Then the sea was gone. A slither of it still to either side but the main belly of the ocean, lost.
A couple of years later and the slither is a thing of wonder. Even though it is far smaller than the barn, it is this piece of water my eyes rest on when I look, in the morning, to the horizon. Some days my mind doesn’t even see the corrugated-green-barn. The barn that has given us an opportunity to plant a family of saplings, eucalyptus and oak, as a screen.
And our relationship with our neighbour? Not quite fixed but cordial and an ongoing opportunity to open up the engine that is forgiveness and check it is in working order.